ok ok ok so here's the deal, I'm single once again and I have decided to go for what i want rather than just let him/them get what he/they wants(me) by coming to me first. As when a guy approaches me, he likes me and i may not necessarily feel the same way so now I want to approach the guys that i do like. Question is how do you men do it, I mean, i managed to get a conversation going and all but i was literally shitting myself (don't ask me why?) Do y'all find it this hard when you approach us?