this lady is a member of the choir i sing in, some how...she has joined me in the children's department where we teach the choir and Now she is in the youth fellowship as director of programs ,..i bring ideas for programs.....sincerely i think she is stalking me.............even in the choir.....she is not the leader but she is intrested in what we guys are singing....everyready to sing with us yet she yabs me without mercy.............help me o! .......she intimidates me and i am 7yrs older than her